If too cute is simply too much for us to handle, our minds can do a strange thing.
Have you ever encountered something so adorable that you had an inexplicable urge to playfully harm it? If so, you鈥檙e not the only one who has felt this way.
In psychology, the phenomenon is called cute aggression, which may include desires to squeeze, crush, pinch, or even bite an object of our affection.
But cute aggression doesn鈥檛 appear to be motivated by vicious intent. Instead, scientists think it is a way we cope with intense positive emotions.
鈥淐ute aggression seems to be a mechanism to manage the overload of positive feelings we can get when we interact with something too cute for us to handle,鈥 says聽Associate Professor Lisa A. Williams, a social psychologist from聽黑料网大事记 Science. 鈥淚n other words, to counter an overwhelming barrage of positive feelings, we seek to tamp it down 鈥 and weirdly enough, that can play out as an aggressive inclination.鈥
In the same way that we might become so overcome with joy that we cry or become overwhelmed by nerves to the point of laughing, A/Prof. Williams says we may become overloaded by cuteness and experience the opposite, contradictory response of aggression.
鈥淚t may be considered a聽聽鈥 a paradoxical response in highly emotional situations that run counter to what we might expect,鈥 A/Prof. Williams says. 鈥淚n cute aggression, this manifests as a feeling of wanting to crush or pinch something we find adorable, but there seems to be no inclination to actually act on that impulse with the intent to harm.鈥
Cuteness overload
The term 鈥渁ggression鈥 itself may be a bit of a misnomer for this phenomenon. The cute aggression response appears to be closely associated with聽, but听苍辞迟听补驳驳谤别蝉蝉颈辞苍.
鈥淥ne study where participants viewed different stimuli including extremely cute things showed relatively more activity in the reward and emotions areas of the brain when viewing something cute,鈥 A/Prof. Williams says. 鈥淭he response in these areas was even stronger among those people who reported feeling cute aggression.
鈥淚t supports the idea that we like to view cute stimuli, even if we sometimes find it overwhelming.鈥
Though what we find adorable can come down to personal preferences, some features may help make something appear cuter to us. In general, people tend to find babies cute, which some researchers say acts as an聽.
鈥淭o humans, cute things usually register with us as worthy of precise, careful, caring behaviour rather than something to be hostile towards, which makes sense from an evolutionary point of view,鈥 A/Prof. Williams says. 鈥淏abies require a lot of help, so cuteness activates our instinct to protect and nurture.
鈥淏ut if you鈥檙e overcome by the cuteness, then you might not be able to properly take care of it, so the brain needs to bring us back a bit, which is apparently where cute aggression comes in.鈥
Some evidence suggests we鈥檙e even聽聽in our physical movements after viewing something we find cute. But as always, people should always be mindful that they鈥檙e not causing any harm even if they are playfully expressing affection, A/Prof. Williams says.
The same adoration we feel for our own babies may also carry over to other animals with similar body proportions that require care, such as puppies and kittens.
鈥淲e can, and do, find a range of things cute. For some of us, that will be a really intense positive feeling where we experience the cute aggression response, which isn鈥檛 anything to worry about,鈥 A/Prof. Williams says.
Those who don鈥檛 experience cute aggression have nothing to be concerned about either.
鈥淭here are always individual differences between us. We all experience and process things differently,鈥 A/Prof. Williams says.
鈥淲hatever your response, it simply sheds light on the fascinating interplay between our brains, our emotions and our behaviour.鈥
