SEXtember
Safe. Sexy. Smart.
Welcome to SEXtember
Ready to turn up the confidence, break down the taboos, and celebrate everything that makes sex and identity empowering?
SEXtember is ¼’s annual festival of sexual health, education and inclusion, where real talk meets real fun.
This year’s theme, “Safe. Sexy. Smart.”, is your reminder that you don’t need to choose, you can have it all. Think: informed choices, regular STI checks, healthy connections and pleasure that feels right for you.
Expect bold events, creative workshops and straight-up practical resources that put you in charge of your wellbeing. Plus, we’re taking SEXtember nationwide again, teaming up with universities across Australia to make the conversation bigger, louder and more inclusive than ever.
Mark your calendar
SEXtember @ ¼ runs in Week 2 (22-26 Sept), with early events kicking off in Week 1 (15-19 Sept) as part of Diversity Festival.
Let’s talk. Let’s learn. Let’s celebrate.
SAFE
Guaranteed to get you in the mood.
SEXY
Sexy songs from classically sexy movies.
SMART
When you want to answer the booty call, but you have an exam in the morning.
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60,000 years of love
Sorry not sorry
An International Affair
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What the World Needs Now
Seasons of Love
The late night love letter
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Songs To Facilitate Your Own Nut
Just like music helps you in other areas of your life, whether it’s studying, exercising, or relaxing, music also helps you get into the right mind-set for a great touch-yo’self sesh; it's a simple way to ease into a state of arousal and melt off low libido blues in high anxiety times.
Consensual Healing
Songs that seek consent and set the mood! The next time you struggle to think of and enjoy music that celebrates sexual consent, you’ll have this hand-picked soundtrack of songs that not only emphasizes permission, boundary-setting and respect but helps to set the mood as well.
Classically STImulating
Having an STI hasn’t stopped composers from creating great music throughout history. About 16 per cent of Australians report having an STI at some point in their lifetime– that's roughly 4 million people. Don’t let an STI stand in the way of loving yourself, loving others, being loved and achieving your dreams. Immerse yourself, this playlist was curated for you.
Put The MIDI in Chlamydia
These artists didn't let an STI stand in the way of loving themselves, loving others, being loved and making great music. With the protection, communication and sexual health check ups, most STIs can be prevented or easily managed. Jam to these songs and celebrate safe and healthy sexual activity!
Highlights
Wednesday, 24 September
4:30pm - 6:30pm | ¼ Bookshop, E15 Quadrangle Building, West Wing
Join us for a student-led conversation where curiosity is encouraged, questions are welcome and pizza is on the table. In this interactive session, students interview experts to unpack the messy, complex and essential topics of consent, masculinityand accountability.
We’ll explore:
- What does consent really mean, and how do we actually practise it?
- How do we talk about masculinity in ways that feel constructive, not critical?
- What does accountability look like in friendships, communities, and everyday moments?
- How can we collectively shift from ‘rape culture’ to ‘consent culture?'
Expect real talk, audience polls interaction and space to reflect on your role in creating safer, more respectful environments. Whether you’re curious, unsure, or passionate – this is your chance to be part of the conversation.
Free pizza. Real questions. No judgment.
Wednesday, 24 September
11am - 4pm | Helen Maguire Lawn, Kensington Campus
This year, we've teamed up withDiversity Festival to bring a double whammy of events for Hump Day. At our biggest event in SEXtember, we’ve got loads of fun games and awesome prizes for you get involved in, all while getting insight into how you can be 'Safe. Sexy. Smart'.
Plus, we’re offering free and confidential sexual health tests for students. Come on down, have a blast and stay safe this sunny SEXtember!
Week 1 (15–19 September)
Living Poetry Project
Living Poetry Project
Monday to Friday, 15–19September | 9am - 4pm | Helen Maguire Lawn
The Living Poetry Project grew from an idea of placing human connection at the heart of our art. We asked four students to delve into their lived experience and take inspiration from their own story and relationships to compose a written piece to share with you during SEXtember. These words are their living poetry.
From this seed grew a collective love poem, threaded together by writer and poet, Natalia Rachel, with an accompanying music piece composed by composer Sophia Christopher to match. Greater than the sum of its parts, this is a true nod to relationships that are both Salty and Sweet.
Don't miss out on experiencing the Living Poetry Project exhibition in person, on campus!
Time to Test
Time to Test
Wednesday 17 September | 11am - 3pm |Helen Maguire Lawn
Been putting off that STI test? It's time to look after your health! Time to Test is an easy way to get tested for chlamydia and gonorrhoea, common STIs that many people may now realise they could have! These STIs often don't have symptoms, so it's important to test early.
Getting tested is a completely normal and confidential part of your health check ups. Drop by between classes for a quick chat and STI test done all in 15 minutes. Let's make testing easy, accessible and totally normal!
Trans Bodies, Informed Choices
Trans Bodies, Informed Choices: A conversation on consent and care
Wednesday 17 September | 12:30pm - 1:30pm |Online
Join Dr Atari Metcalf and Dr Kalli Spencer for a dynamic conversation that moves beyond pathologising frameworks to recognise the rich diversity of trans experiences. This webinar will explore how consent, bodily autonomy, and access to gender-affirming care intersect in the lives of transgender people. We will discuss the shift from medical gatekeeping to informed choice, and reflect on how affirming trans bodies involves both compassionate care and honouring individual experience.
You'll have the opportunity to ask questions after this short conversation.
Is my Husband Gay or Sleeping with Other Men?
Is my Husband Gay or Sleeping with Other Men with Kyla Lawson
Wednesday 17 September | 10am - 11am | Online
Join us we host Kyla Lawson (she/her), a social worker, health promoter and project officer at Women Partners to discuss the implications for women if their partner is gay or sleeping with other men.
Women Partners is a NSW based service that offers individual counselling, support groups and Sexual Health information for all women whose male partner is having sex with men or has come out as gay or bisexual.
Kyla has over 15 years of experience working with women and children, both internationally and domestically. After completion of her Advanced Masters in Sexual and Reproductive Health, her career has moved into health promotion and project officer roles within women’s health.
Winnie will dive into Kyla’s work in this space and together they will explore the gendered impacts of HIV and STI transmission, infertility and societal responses to reproductive rights and justice.
Real Talk, Real Life
Real Talk, Real Life: A parent & carer's guide to understanding consent, sexuality and online influence for teens
Thursday 18 September | 1pm - 2pm |Online
Children and young people will learn about relationships and sexuality from many avenues, but home is where this valuable learning starts. Daily life creates many opportunities for passing on positive messages about bodies, trust, types of touch, privacy, respect and relationships.
Grow your confidence in these discussions with children and young people in your care and learn how to respond to those tricky questions in this information session with comprehensive sexuality educator Jackie Khan from True Relationships and Reproductive Health.
Tailored workshop for LGBTQ+ students
Joyride: A tailored workshop for LGBTQ+ students
Thursday 18 September | 4pm - 6:30pm |Room 2008, Level 2, E15 Quadrangle Building
🌈Looking to connect, learn and feel more confident navigating life in Australia?
Join us for Joyride – a fun, inclusive and empowering 2.5-hour workshop designed especially for LGBTQ+ international students, brought to you by.
Whether you’re newly arrived or have been here for a while, this session is a great way to build connections and get across the key things every queer student should know about health, relationships and support in Australia.
What we’ll explore together:
- Community & Belonging – Connect with community
- Consent Conversations – Respectful relationships across cultures and contexts
- Sexual Health 101 – Understanding HIV, STIs and prevention methods
- Testing & Services – Where to go, what to expect and why it matters
- Navigating Healthcare in Australia – Practical tips for accessing healthcare here and what your overseas student health cover can do.
Why attend?
- Meet other LGBTQ+ international students
- Clear, most recent info on all aspects of health
- Ask questions in a safe, inclusive space
- Walk away with resources, confidence and ongoing support.
This workshop is facilitated by experienced LGBTQ+ health educators who are also peers who understand the unique challenges – and joy!
Audience:LGBTQ+ international students (18+)
Cost:FREE (Food and snack provided, goodie bags on arrival)
Language:English (with support available for multilingual participants)
Landmark/Access instructions
The space is located halfway between the Basser Steps (Rainbow Stairs) on Level 2 of E15 Building. For easy access:
- Enter via ¼ Health Service and take the lift to Level 2
- Room 2008 is adjacent to ¼ Psychology & Wellness.
Please note:Registering via the 123form does not guarantee you a spot in the workshop. An ACON officer will contact you after you register to confirm.
Toga party
Toga Party
Thursday 18 September | 7pm - 9pm |Roundhouse
Are you ready to party? Toga Party is going ancient Greek Chic to disco at Studio 54.
Stop by our PASH stall for free condoms and temporary tattoos. Your PASH peers will be down with chats, fun and freebies until 9pm.
Week 2 & 3 (22–30 September)
Dating Down Under
Dating Down Under
Monday 22 September | 5pm - 6pm | Roundhouse Function Rooms
New to dating in Australia? Join us for a fun, judgement-free workshop where we explore how respect, boundaries and consent can look different across cultures– and what that means for you!
This event is brought to you by Arc for Diversity Festival.
Pitch Your Pals: Queer Edition
Pitch Your Pals: Queer Edition
Monday 22 September | 6:30pm - 8:30pm |Roundhouse
Pitch Your Pals is a powerpoint-powered Queer dating night where YOU get to play Cupid. In this special edition of Love Island, you can vouch for friends who're queer singles ready to mingle. Are you in? Get tickets now!
"How do you like it?"
"How do you like it?" – Clay Connections
Tuesday 23 September | 5pm - 7pm |Room 2008, Level 2, E15 Quadrangle Building
The "How Do You Like It?" Clay Connections workshop is a safe and inclusive space for students to engage in conversations about healthy intimate relationships. This two-hour workshop will empower you to explore your personal boundaries, understand consent and develop effective communication skills that normalise the expression of your needs and preferences to foster safe, consensual relationships in your life.
Hump Day x Diversity Festival
Hump Day x Diversity Festival Quad Takeover
Wednesday 24 September | 11am - 4pm | Helen Maguire Lawn
This year, we've teamed up withDiversity Festivalto bring a double whammy of events for Hump Day. At our biggest event in SEXtember, we’ve got loads of fun games and awesome prizes for you get involved in, all while getting insight into how you can be 'Safe. Sexy. Smart'.
Plus, we’re offering free and confidential sexual health tests for students. Come on down, have a blast and stay safe this sunny SEXtember!
Stigma in the Bloodstream
Stigma in the Bloodstream: HIV's legacy in medicine, law and society
Wednesday 24 September | 12pm - 2pm |Museum of Human Disease
Join us at the Museum of Human Disease for a thought-provoking panel event unpacking the complex and lasting legacy of HIV. From medical breakthroughs to legal advocacy and social justice, our expert speakers will examine how HIV has shaped and continues to influence our world.
Following the discussion, guests are invited to enjoy light refreshments and explore the Museum’s powerful displays on the impact of disease on the human body.
Organised for Diversity Festival by ¼ Museum of Human Disease.
A Slice of Consent
A Slice of Consent: a teach-us-consent panel
Wednesday 24 September | 4:30pm - 6:30pm |¼ Bookshop, Lower E15 Quadrangle Building, West Wing
Join us for a student-led conversation where curiosity is encouraged, questions are welcome and pizza is on the table. In this interactive session, students interview experts to unpack the messy, complex and essential topics ofconsent,masculinityandaccountability.
We’ll explore:
- What doesconsentreally mean, and how do we actually practise it?
- How do we talk about masculinity in ways that feel constructive, not critical?
- What doesaccountabilitylook like in friendships, communities and everyday moments?
- How can we collectively shift from ‘rape culture’ to ‘consent culture?'
Expect real talk, audience polls interaction and space to reflect on your role in creating safer, more respectful environments. Whether you’re curious, unsure or passionate – this is your chance to be part of the conversation.
Free pizza. Real questions. No judgment.
One woman a week
One woman a week: how do we end gendered violence?
Wednesday 24 September |6:30pm - 7:45pm |John Niland Scientia Building (G19)
Despite Australia promising to end gendered violence within a generation, intimate partner abuse and domestic homicide rates are still rising – with at least one woman killed each week.Award-winning journalistJess Hillleads this headline event exploring the bold and essential question: how can we end gendered violence? Can we end gendered violence?
Join us for a solo talk fromJess Hill, followed by a conversation and Q&A with ¼ expertProfessor Michael Salter, chaired by Walkley-winning journalistSarah Malik.
Let's Talk: Safe. Sexy. Smart.
Let's Talk: Safe. Sexy. Smart.
Thursday 25 September | 11am - 2pm |¼ College Courtyard
Join us for a fun, inclusive, and judgment-free event all about sexual health, relationships, and self-love. For activities, think glitter bar and fun spinning wheels where you can connect with our supportive community services and get the answers to all your questions – no topic is off limits!
Whether you're curious, cautious, or confident, come celebrate SEXtember with us!
Drag Trivia with Diana Heelz
Drag Trivia with Diana Heelz
Thursday 25 September | 5pm - 6pm |Roundhouse Garden Bar
Think you know it all when it comes to sexual health, relationships and consent?
Get ready to to Drag and Drop your SEXtember knowledge at this cheeky edition of trivia night at the Roundhouse, hosted by the one and only .
Bring a friend down, grab a drink and settle in for giggles, glitter and good vibes.
No registrations needed - see you there!
SEXtember Trivia Afternoon
SEXtember Trivia Afternoon
Thursday 25 September | 12:30pm - 1:30pm | Room 131, L5 Building, ¼ College
Join us for a fun and cheeky trivia session exploring key topics like consent, relationships and biology. With four exciting rounds: Sex Ed, Consent & Relationships, Knowing the Facts and Consent in the Media; you’ll learn, laugh and maybe even earn some bragging rights. Lots of prizes up for grabs, and even better – free food!
The Future of Sexual Healthcare in Australia
Empowering Access: The Future of Sexual Healthcare in Australia
Friday 26 September | 5:30pm - 8:30pm | Tyree, John Niland Scientia Building
Engage in a critical discussion on reproductive equity with SHARE (Sexual Health Advocates for Reproductive Equity) at this year's Diversity Festival. This hybrid event, held on World Contraception Day, will feature presentations and panels addressing the multifaceted barriers to sexual healthcare, particularly for marginalised communities.
We'll explore issues of bodily autonomy, health equity and gender equality with experts from organisations like QENDO and academics. We will highlight the disproportionate impact of systemic barriers on First Nations, LGBTQIA+, CALD and low SES communities, among others. Our goal is to cultivate a safe and inclusive environment to advocate for systemic change and equitable access for all Australians.
Organised by SHARE and ¼ Arts, Design & Architecture.
Tailored workshop for LGBTQ+ students
Joyride: A tailored workshop for LGBTQ+ students
Tuesday 30 September | 5pm - 7:30pm |Room 2008, Level 2, E15 Quadrangle Building
🌈Looking to connect, learn and feel more confident navigating life in Australia?
Join us for Joyride – a fun, inclusive and empowering 2.5-hour workshop designed especially for LGBTQ+ international students, brought to you by.
Whether you’re newly arrived or have been here for a while, this session is a great way to build connections and get across the key things every queer student should know about health, relationships and support in Australia.
What we’ll explore together:
- Community & Belonging – Connect with community
- Consent Conversations – Respectful relationships across cultures and contexts
- Sexual Health 101 – Understanding HIV, STIs and prevention methods
- Testing & Services – Where to go, what to expect and why it matters
- Navigating Healthcare in Australia – Practical tips for accessing healthcare here and what your overseas student health cover can do.
Why attend?
- Meet other LGBTQ+ international students
- Clear, most recent info on all aspects of health
- Ask questions in a safe, inclusive space
- Walk away with resources, confidence and ongoing support.
This workshop is facilitated by experienced LGBTQ+ health educators who are also peers who understand the unique challenges – and joy!
Audience:LGBTQ+ international students (18+)
Cost:FREE (Food and snack provided, goodie bags on arrival)
Language:English (with support available for multilingual participants)
Landmark/Access instructions
The space is located halfway between the Basser Steps (Rainbow Stairs) on Level 2 of E15 Building. For easy access:
- Enter via ¼ Health Service and take the lift to Level 2
- Room 2008 is adjacent to ¼ Psychology & Wellness.
Please note: Registering via the 123form does not guarantee you a spot in the workshop. An ACON officer will contact you after you register to confirm.
Other universities
Consent, Alcohol & Substances
Consent, Alcohol & Substances: Navigating the Gray Areas with Jamie Buchreid
Tuesday 2 September | 6pm - 7pm (ACST) |Online (University of Adelaide)
When the night gets messy, consent can too. Join this safe, no-judgement session to unpack real-life scenarios, how substances affect decision-making, and ways to look out for your mates. Inclusive, relatable and sex-positive.
Real Talk, Real Life
Real Talk, Real Life: A carers' guide to understanding consent, sexuality and online influence for teens
Thursday 18 September | 1 - 2pm | Online(The University of Queensland)
Children and young people will learn about relationships and sexuality from many avenues, but home is where this valuable learning starts. Daily life creates many opportunities for passing on positive messages about bodies, trust, types of touch, privacy, respect and relationships.
Grow your confidence in these discussions with children and young people in your care and learn how to respond to those tricky questions in this information session with comprehensive sexuality educator Jackie Khan from True Relationships and Reproductive Health.
Queer Sex Ed: Q&A
Queer Sex Ed: Q&A with Naomi Hutchings
Tuesday 23 September | 6pm - 7pm |Online (The University of Queensland)
Join sexologist Naomi Hutchings for the queer sex education session you've been waiting for, where we'll be answering all of your burning questions about queer sex, sexuality, gender identity, sexual health and relationships. Registrations essential!
Sex, relationships and neurodivergence
Queer Sex Ed:Sex, relationships and neurodivergence with Kai Schweizer
Thursday 25 September | 6pm - 7pm |Online (The University of Queensland)
During this interactive webinar, sexologist, researcher and educator, Kai Schweizer, will be answering all of your burning questions about sex, sexuality, gender identity, sexual health and relationships with a focus on LGBTQ+ relationships, neurodiversity and sexual health.
Come with questions and curiosity for this after-hours session that you can dial in from wherever you’re most comfortable! This session will be a webinar so you can tune in with complete privacy. Submit your questions to Kai in advance through Mentimeter.
Your guide to navigating sex, safety, and relationships while studying at ¼.
STI testing is a routine part of looking after your health and recommended with every new sexual partner. We’ve got free and confidential options across Kensington campus.
Featuring eight male students and alumni speaking about the role men play in affirmative consent and gendered violence, brought to you by SRC’s Women’s Collective and ¼ Student Wellbeing.
A guide to your support options with pregnancy and childbirth.
Sexual and gendered violence of all forms is a pervasive reality in today's world. Access our holistic and trauma-informed support service.
Are you or someone you know experiencing gendered violence?
Help is available for you and fellow students if you have been affected by, witnessed, or are supporting someone experiencing,relationship violence,or.
The Gendered Violence Response Team (GVRT), made up of specialist mental health clinicians, can offer support, information, safety planning, or simply have an informal chat about your options. They can connect you with services for academic adjustments and provide guidance on reporting incidents. You can also report anonymously using the Gendered Violence portal.
This SEXtember we're not only bringing you events but tonnes of resources too! Whether it's brushing up on your sex-ed or learning more about the world of kink, porn and all that spicy stuff, we've got you covered.
Porn and erotica
Porn is a part of many people’s sexual journeys, but how you engage with it matters. See the ethical porn checklist.
REALationships
Get real advice from experts in the field who answer honest questions about sex, dating (including situationships) and gendered violence.
The right place for all your sexual and reproductive health questions.
Get the down low for a confident and healthy sex life. Itcovers all the details on healthy sex, protection, testing and treatment.
Sex & Relationships 101 Modules
Are you an international student who missed the basic of sex education?
Sex and relationships 101 has got you covered. Designed by fellow international students from ¼ and in partnership with NSW Health, these five modules cover all the basics consent and healthy relationships to sexual health and STI testing.
The modules are self-paced and can be completed in any order.
🔑 Moodle Student Key:StudentSH&ROLM
SEXtember Sexual Wellbeing Series
Sex, love or intimacy?
Sex isn't for everyone or every relationship. It is something you choose when you're ready. There are many different reasons to have sex: it can be because you love someone or because it's fun.But sex doesn't always equal intimacy, and you can be intimate with someone without having sex.
The important thing is that sex is consensual. It's something you both want to do - every time. And if you don't want to have sex, you don't have to. Even if you said you wanted to and then it doesn't feel right. You can stop at any point and that's okay. You can also say yes to some things and not others.
If you feel pressured, forced or coerced into having sex of any kind, or you are substantially influenced by drugs or alcohol, you cannot give consent. This type of sex is not okay. In fact, it can be considered sexual assault. Learn more about consent and relationships.
Your guide for this series
Georgia Grace is a certified Australian sex coach, working with individuals, couples, and groups to support people with having the fulfilling sex lives they want. You can hear more from Georgia through theREALationships series.
- 1. Desire
- 2. Healthy relationships
- 3. Stress
Episode 1: Desire
Do you want your partner all the time or does your desire fluctuate? Desire and libido are influenced by a range of factors. Georgia Grace unpacks this and gives you tips on how to understand your own and others desire.
Episode 2: Healthy Relationships
“You have to learn to be a good Lover”
What are the habits or behaviours of a healthy relationship? What are you willing to do for others, and what are you also wanting to receive in a fulfilling relationship?
In this video Georgia explores the role of communication, understanding your own body and the practice of asking for what you want and need.
Episode 3: Stress
In this video, Georgia discusses the relationship between stress, sex and mental health.
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Developed byand NORMAL the "" covers 15 episodes for healthy and robust intimacy. You'll explore a range of topics and answer some of the big questions about sex and relationships. There are also dozens of practical activities to work through by yourself or with someone else. As a student at ¼ aged 18+, you have free access to this resource.
SEXtember is delivered by ¼ Health Promotion Unit with support of ¼ College, ¼ Safer Communities and Arc Student Life We thank the Division of Equity, Diversity and Inclusion for their support for SEXtember as part of Diversity Festival 2025. We also thank the 200+ students who contributed to this year’s theme and events.
Remember: Conversations about consent, relationships, sex and sexuality can sometimes be difficult. ¼ has a gendered violence support team who can be contacted through the Gendered Violence Portal. Alternatively, you can talk to someone who is trained to help through free and confidential support services or by calling 1800RESPECT (1800 737 732).
Need more support? We’re here to help.
Whether you're feeling unwell, overwhelmed or unsure where to turn, support is always available at ¼.
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If you or someone else are in immediate danger or need urgent medical or psychological help, please seek emergency support right away.
This includes contacting emergency services (000), attending your nearest hospital or using after-hours crisis lines.
If you require emergency support while you're on campus, access our 24/7 services below.