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Delphine's story:

Shifting power and gaining confidence

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鈥淚 was born in Rwanda and migrated to Australia in 2007. My journey here wasn鈥檛 just a move, it was a shift in my entire life. During the 1994 genocide in Rwanda, I had to flee and became a refugee in Congo for a couple of years. That experience shaped a lot of my growing up and pushed me toward humanitarian work. It gave me a deep sense of compassion and a drive to be involved in community work.

When I arrived in Australia, I had to start over.

I hadn鈥檛 finished university back home, so I went back to study. I completed a Bachelor鈥檚 degree in Social Sciences in 2013 and a Master鈥檚 in International Security Studies in 2017, all while raising children. I was pregnant, studying, working, and looking after my kids. It wasn鈥檛 easy, but I did it.

Professionally, I鈥檝e worked with refugee and asylum seeker programs, served with the NSW Government in roles including child protection, and contributed to community capacity building for migrant and refugee communities. I鈥檝e always been drawn to work that empowers others, especially women.

Joining UOW聽聽program through聽JEINA Inspire has been a turning point for me. As a woman from a CALD background, from a minority community, and with my experience as a refugee, this program is helping me build my confidence and develop my skills. It鈥檚 not just about having knowledge, it鈥檚 about having the opportunity to use it. You can have all the skills in the world, but if you鈥檙e not given a chance to show what you can do, it doesn鈥檛 mean much.

For me, success isn鈥檛 just about making money. It鈥檚 about doing something that gives me a sense of fulfilment. It鈥檚 about feeling happy and purposeful in what I do. Sometimes, especially in community work or social enterprise, there鈥檚 no financial reward. You鈥檙e tired, you鈥檙e exhausted, and maybe not even appreciated.

But the joy you feel when someone is empowered, when you鈥檝e made a difference in someone鈥檚 life. That鈥檚 the real reward.

This program is helping me reflect on what I want to do and how I can do it. I鈥檝e started identifying gaps in services, especially for women. We have a lot of needs, layers of needs, and they鈥檙e not always addressed. I鈥檓 clearly seeing where I can make a difference, and how I can do it, whether it鈥檚 on my own, with a community, or through an organisation.

I鈥檓 learning that the original idea doesn鈥檛 have to stay the same. It can shift. It can evolve. I Accelerate is giving me the space to think clearly, to ask myself the hard questions, and to choose what I want to DO, not just settle for what鈥檚 available. As a mother, a woman, and a minority in Australia, that choice means everything. It鈥檚 about thriving, not just surviving.鈥